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Ten Challenges Faced by Teachers Today and Tips to Overcome Them

By Praveena

Today’s generation is overly entitled and too pampered. Teachers are no longer seen as the only providers of knowledge, as kids have a lot of exposure to technology.  Low patience levels and less attention span are a few of the challenges faced by teachers today.  

In such a scenario, teachers find it hard to stimulate the interest of the students and keep them attentive during the lecture. Moreover, they also find it difficult to impart values and morals in today’s overly competitive world.  Another common challenge faced by teachers is handling parents who are only concerned about the marks of their child rather than the quality of education and the overall development. 

Most common challenges faced by teachers today: 

1. One Size Fits All Approach to Teaching

One of the most common problems facing teaching and learning at present is the one-size-fits-all approach to education. For example, in a classroom of 25 students, each student has unique personality traits and learning capabilities. Some are fast learners, while others require extra help. Few students are artistic while others are scientific. Some students learn through the hands-on- approach, while others prefer reading books to gain knowledge. However, today’s education system does not consider the strengths and weaknesses of students. Everyone has to study the same curriculum, understand different topics at the same pace, and also take the same examinations and assessments. 

Teachers find it hard to cater to the learning needs of all the students in the class. They have very little time to complete the curriculum, as a result, they are left with little or no time to help students with different learning needs. 

2. Juggling Multiple Roles

Teachers have to juggle multiple responsibilities along with teaching. They have to constantly update themselves, and also perform duties such as preparing additional study material to complement the textbook information, managing field trips, preparing content presentations, preparing and evaluating projects and assessments, and handling other administrative duties of the school.

 Apart from these tasks, a teacher is also expected to play the role of a counselor, guide and mentor to the students. All these expectations create undue pressure on the teachers and lead to many problems. 

Lack of time is one of the most critical challenges facing teachers today. They have to juggle between different roles and handle all the classroom responsibilities in a limited time frame. This pressure is disturbing their work-life balance and leading to mental health concerns among teachers.

3. The Pressure to Perform Well

Challenges Faced by Teachers

There is severe competition in every career and teaching is no different. Teachers are challenged to give their best as there is the next best option waiting in line to replace them. Moreover, the school administration holds the teachers responsible for many of the classroom indicators such as the win percentage, student growth, and class discipline. This excessive pressure and competition cause quick burnout among teachers. 

4. Handling Overly-demanding Parents

Present generation parents are excessively demanding. They do not understand the problems of the teacher and are always complaining. Some parents are not willing to take responsibility for providing a better learning experience to their kids but expect the teachers to handle everything. They are always complaining about the teacher and her teaching methods. Handling such parents is a tough task for teachers as they have to maintain a fine balance between being fair and assertive. 

5. Ever-changing Educational Trends

Developments in science and technology bring innovation in educational trends. Schools are eager to adopt the latest technological tools and boast about them to get more admissions. But they do not show the same enthusiasm in training their teachers to use these new technologies.

The inability of the teachers to use the latest educational tools is one of the common problems facing teaching and learning at present times. Teachers are left to their own means to determine the ways to include new technology in their teaching style, which causes frustration and stress.

6. Limitations in Discipling Students

Woman Holding Chin Sitting Beside Table in Room

One of the main challenges facing teachers today is the limitation in disciplining students. Teachers have to deal with students with different personality traits. Some of them are well-mannered and obedient while others are argumentative and disrespectful. 

Handling disrespectful and ill-mannered students has become a headache for teachers. They cannot punish the child for the fear of facing lawsuits and actions from the school administration.  The students do not care to follow the instructions of the teachers as they know that the teacher cannot do much to discipline them. 

Teaching in an unfriendly environment not only affects the teaching style but also leads to serious consequences. 

7. Standardized Testing Methods

Standardized testing methods are a pain for both the students and the teachers. As the learning and comprehension needs of each student are different, so are their capabilities to demonstrate their mastery over different educational concepts. 

Teachers feel that using standardized tests does not do justice in determining the capability of students. Moreover, these tests are killing the creativity of both the students and teachers. 

Most of the school administrations measure the effectiveness of teachers based on the test outcomes of the students. Teachers are forced to shift their teaching methodologies to focus on clearing the tests instead of imparting value-based knowledge to the students.

8. Poor Recognition

The lack of well-qualified and dedicated teachers is one of the major problems facing teaching and learning at present. Though a teacher plays a crucial role in molding the personality of children and preparing them to be responsible citizens of the country, there is a very poor perception of teachers in society. 

Teaching is rarely regarded as a respected profession. You can hardly see any child taking up teaching as a career choice. The low paying jobs along with poor public perception discourage people from taking up teaching as a profession.

9. Identifying Effective Ideas

Teachers have to be equipped with the necessary tools and ideas to make their teaching effective. However, there is an overdose of ideas to improve teaching methodologies and better learning outcomes. However, most of the present generation teachers are overwhelmed by the sheer numbers of the tools and ideas available online. 

The lack of time and the pressure to perform well leave them with little time to identify the effective ideas and implement them. 

10. Lack of Motivation and Interest in Students

Lack of motivation in students is a major challenge facing teachers today. Some children attend school just because they have to. Handling such students is tough for the teachers as they cannot do much to change the student’s attitude. 

Teachers can only mentor and counsel the students. But the real change in attitude only happens when the student decides to change. 

Tips to Overcome Some of the common Challenges Faced by Teachers Today

Challenges Faced by Teachers
  • Cater to The Different Learning Requirements of Students Through Differentiation

You can handle the different learning requirements of students through the differentiation technique. This involves using at least 4 to 5 different learning styles in a lesson. For example, you can read a few topics of the chapter, ask the students to present a few topics, use creative aids to explain certain topics, use the computer to create simulations for practical knowledge, and make the students write notes. This includes 5 different learning styles and caters to the requirements of a majority of the students. 

  • Plan Ahead To Save Time and Avoid Last Minute Pressure

Lack of time to handle the different responsibilities is one of the challenges facing teachers today.  You can overcome this challenge through proper planning. Plan ahead to avoid the last-minute pressure. Have a backup plan to provide space for extracurricular and other school activities. Though it is important to stick to the plans, provide some flexibility to accommodate unexpected disruptions.

  • Seek Cooperation From parents

Teachers and parents should work as a team to provide a high-quality learning experience to the students. Have an open line of communication with the parents. Schedule regular parent-teacher meetings to discuss the problems faced by the students and strategies to overcome them. You can also use the internet to be constantly in touch with the parents and work together for the benefit of the students. 

  • Encourage Students to Set Goals

Teach students about setting their own goals and monitoring them. This process will not only encourage autonomous learning but also teaches them to take responsibility. Setting goals and measuring them periodically motivates the students to work towards achieving their goals. Once the students prepare their goals, you can work with them and provide ideas to achieve their goals. Weekly or monthly monitoring of progress can help the students to identify their shortcomings and work towards them. 

  • Peer Learning

Student-led classrooms are highly effective in initiating a discussion in the classroom and make a topic interesting. This creative idea not only helps to instill confidence in the students but also inspires them to research in-depth about a certain topic and share the information with their classmates. 

Divide the classroom into groups and give them the responsibility of teaching a new topic every day. This practice not only stimulates the students to learn more but also teaches them the importance of teamwork and collaboration. 

  • Incorporate Technology in Teaching
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Today’s students have high exposure to technology and incorporating it in teaching helps to capture their interest. Use video lessons, podcasts, and online educational games, etc. to stimulate the students and motivate them to learn more. 

You can create engaging educational content, challenging assignments and also keep a tab of student progress using the latest tools and apps. If you are struggling with the use of new technology, enroll for online tutorials on how to use various apps and online tools to make your teaching interesting. 

  • Experiential Learning

Experiential learning involves learning methods such as games, debates, group discussions, peer tutoring, class presentations, field trips, industrial visits and so on. It helps to overcome many of the challenges faced by teachers today such as lack of interest and motivation, boredom in class, and handling different learning needs of students. 

Experiential learning develops critical thinking and deep-learning in students. It helps children to learn a topic faster by focussing on the experience. Experiential learning improves content retention and reduces boredom in class. Thereby enhancing the learning outcomes and improves the performance of the students in standardized tests. 

Pencil voyages have a range of experiential learning activities to help schools and teachers in improving their teaching methodologies and better the learning outcomes of students. Contact us today for more information. 

Each classroom is different and it is difficult to create effective strategies for each problem. However, you can mix and match different strategies and choose the best approach to handle the problems facing teaching and learning in the classroom. 

Filed Under: Parenting

Reasons Children Do Not Share Their Teenage Problems with Parents

By Praveena

Is your teenage son or daughter angry and frustrated all the time? Having Teenage Problems with Parents. Huh!!

Does your teenager exhibit violent behavior?

Are you worried about your teenagers’ lack of interest in meeting people and socializing?

Anger, violence, Frustration, Depression, and Isolation are some of the common issues faced by teens. These peculiar behaviors are a result of some underlying problems such as self-image issues, bullying, peer pressure, abuse and so on. However, adolescents do not prefer to share their teenage problems with parents as they are unsure about your response.

Parenting teens is a challenging task. You are always worried about the whereabouts of the child, his/her activities, lack of interest to communicate with you, and the seemingly endless fights about trivial issues. Though these issues seem to be impossible to handle, there are some useful tips to overcome the challenges faced by parents of teenagers. These tips will help you to control the chaos and guide your teen to transition through the tough teenage years and help him/her to blossom into a well-rounded adult.

Before you know about the tips to handle teenage problems, it helps to understand why adolescents prefer not to share their teenage problems with parents. 

Teenage Problems with Parents

Lack of Good Rapport

Most parent-child relationships lack rapport. This is one of the main reasons why children drift away from their parents. They get close to their friends and depend on them for solutions to their problems. This, in turn, results in risky behavior, addictions, peer pressure, etc.

As a parent, you have to work towards developing a good rapport with the child. This requires consistent efforts from both the parents. You have to spend time with the child and discuss issues that are bothering them. It helps to have open communication with the child to encourage him/her to discuss any issue that is bothering them.

Lack of Mutual Respect

Mutual respect is one of the foundation stones for building a strong and close relationship with your teenager. The pet peeve of most teenagers is a lack of respect from their parents. They do not like being treated as children and crave for respect and validation. 

It is your duty as a parent to acknowledge the feelings of your child. You have to respect their views and opinions. Make them a part of the discussions and ask for their views. Ask them for their point of view before taking any decision pertaining to their life. It will make them feel respected and they will show you the same respect. 

Developing mutual respect will help you to handle challenges faced by parents of teenagers like defiant behavior, rebellious attitude, endless fights, etc. it will help the child to develop individuality and also teach them to respect everyone around them.

Lack of Trust

Teenage children complain that their parents do not trust them. They feel that discussing teenage problems with parents is a waste of time as parents do not understand the underlying reasons for the problem but blame the child. 

Show your teens that you trust them with all your heart. This will make them feel responsible for their actions. They will not hesitate to share information about their activities or discuss any problems as they are aware that you will trust them and give positive advice. 

Now that we know the 3 main reasons why children do not share their problems with parents, let us discuss some helpful tips to overcome the challenges faced by parents of teenagers.

Tips to Overcome Teenage Problems with Parents

challenges faced by parents of teenager

Show Love and Empathy

Teenagers are going through tough times mentally and physically. They crave acceptance, love, and empathy from their parents. Connect with your teen on a daily basis. Have dinner together or go for a walk. Put your phones away and give complete attention to the child. Let them know that you are always there to address their concerns, whenever they need you. Initially, they may be skeptical but once they are sure that you will not judge them, they will gradually open up.

Pay Close Attention to Their Behavior patterns

Sometimes depression and other mental health disorders may be the reason for your teen’s weird behavior. You have to pay close attention to any sudden changes in their behavior. Some red flags are low attendance at school, General lack of interest towards life, low self-esteem, drug abuse, alcohol addiction, risky behaviors, screen addiction, bullying, etc. Identify behavior changes and get timely help from professionals to bring back your teen to normalcy before it is too late.

Add Balance To Your Teen’s Life

You can also enroll them in out of school programs that develop an understanding of the world around them. These experiential learning programs will broaden their understanding and help them to make new connections.  

Lastly, you have to remember that taking care of yourself is important too. Handling teenagers can be exhausting and sometimes you may lose your cool. But remember teenage is a passing phase and it won’t last forever. Tell yourself that both you and your child will get out of this critical phase together and develop a strong bond for life. You can connect with other parents to discuss the challenges faced by parents of teenagers and find out ways to overcome them. You can enroll in support groups or take help from therapists and professional counselors. 

 

Filed Under: Parenting

Everything Parents Need to Know About Cyberbullying And Tips to Protect Children From Cyber bullying

By Praveena

Did you notice an abrupt and unnatural change in the behavior of your child?

Has your child become aggressive or cranky off late? 

Does your child avoid social gatherings and prefer isolation?

Have you ever heard the word cyberbullying? 

Before we proceed further to discuss types of cyberbullying and how to protect your child from it, let us first understand what is cyberbullying.

What is Cyberbullying?

Cyberbullying is a term referred to address the form of harassment that is done using electronic and digital devices such as computers, laptops, smartphones, and tablets. Bullies use different platforms such as social media, gaming platforms, and video and message sharing apps, etc. to target the victim. 

Cyberbullying involves posting hateful or nasty comments, spreading rumors, and hurting the victim with the intention to cause humiliation or character assassination. A majority of school students face cyberbullying but do not share it with their parents. In fact, protecting children from this form of bullying is one of the most critical problems faced by parents of school students.

If we look at the statistics, a study conducted by Symantec states that 8 out of 10 people in India are subject to one or the other form of cyberbullying. Out of these 8 people, 63% faced abuses and insults and 59% were subjected to false rumors and gossip intended to character assassinate the victim. The research also highlights the fact that India is facing the highest number of cyberbullying cases in the Asia Pacific Region. 

Cyberbullying

Increased use of smartphones, Improved connectivity to data and social media presence are all contributing to the growth of cyberbullying incidents in India. A majority of individuals including children possess smartphones and laptops. Children are addicted to social media platforms such as Instagram, Snapchat, etc. where they share their pictures and videos. This exposes them to an increased risk of cyberbullying. 

Keeping children away from these devices is one of the biggest challenges working parents face today. They are always not available to monitor the activities of the child and are forced to leave the child on his own without any supervision. The child is alone at home and turns towards social media and gaming platforms to pass time. Children are easy targets for cyberbullying because online gaming and social media platforms are full of bullies waiting for vulnerable targets.

Most of the children facing cyberbullying do not open up to their parents due to the fear of being scolded. They hide the matter until it turns serious or ugly. Children tend to become aggressive, timid, isolated and avoid social interaction, which causes problems between parents and children.  As a parent, it is your responsibility to identify any behavioral changes in children and find out the underlying cause for such changes. 

Understanding different types of cyberbullying will enable you to take the right measures to prevent the problem. 

Types of Cyberbullying

Cyberbullying

Any activity that intends to humiliate a person or malign his character using digital media comes under the purview of cyberbullying. Some common types of cyberbullying are 

  1. Posting online comments or rumors that hurt the sentiments of a person or malign his/her character
  2. Uploading an embarrassing photo or video of a person without his/her consent to humiliate them on an online platform
  3. Creating a fake web page of a person without informing him and posting rumors and gossip about that person
  4. Issuing threats online to provoke a person to hurt himself or other persons, or commit suicide
  5. Posting hate comments to promote racial, religious, ethnic or political hatred towards a person
  6. Faking identity to gather personal information of a person and posting it online to harass him/her
  7. Collecting personal information about a person from his social media accounts and online profiles and using it to defame the person online or harass him. (also known as doxing)
  8. Exclusion from groups, message threads or online conversations with mutual friends that makes the person feel left out or excluded
  9. Framing or using a person’s social media accounts to post obscene and inappropriate content in order to ruin their image
  10. Posting content with an intention to incite a person into ugly online spats 

There are many other forms of cyberbullying, which are difficult to identify and report. As parents, it is your responsibility to monitor the social media accounts, emails and other digital devices of your child to identify any sort of bullying and protect the child from it. 

Understanding the different types of cyberbullying will help you stand up against the bullies and protect your child from this ugly problem. 

Effects of Cyberbullying

Cyberbullying

Traditional forms of bullying happen when the bully and victim are face to face and know each other. But in cyberbullying, it is not necessary for the victim to know the bully. Digital devices and social media allow anonymity, which provides strength to the bullies. They hide under fake profiles or remain incognito to wreck menace in the lives of victims. Identifying these bullies and reporting them is one of the toughest problems faced by parents of school students in this generation. 

Cyberbullying can happen anywhere and at any place until the victim has access to a digital device such as a smartphone or a laptop. The children being subjected to this feeling that they are helpless and victimized and can resort to drastic measures to come out of the situation. This causes problems between parents and children as the parents are unable to comprehend the reasons for the sudden change in the child’s behavior.  

The effects of cyberbullying are severe and long-term. Children develop anxiety, depression and other mental health disorders when subjected to frequent episodes of cyberbullying. In extreme cases, some children have suicidal tendencies and may also resort to suicide as they are unable to handle the online humiliation and shame. 

Another negative effect of cyberbullying include lowered standards of academic performance as children who are victims of cyberbullying avoid going to school. As the bully spreads false information about the child, they fear humiliation from their peers at school, which happens most of the time. They come up with weird excuses to avoid going to school or lie to their parents that they are going to school while they are actually going to some other places. This makes them fall into bad company and may also lead to drug and alcohol addiction or substance abuse. 

Some other effects of cyberbullying include

  1. Feeling overwhelmed as the child is unable to handle the pressure and shame caused by the bully.
  2. Feeling vulnerable as the child feels that there is no place to escape from the bully.
  3. The child may feel exploited and violated as personal information or nasty comments about the child are shared online with multitudes of people.
  4. Feeling shameful and resorting to instances of self-harm.
  5. A general disinterest in life as the child feels helpless to fight with the bully.
  6. Loss of confidence and self-esteem 
  7. Feeling physically ill due to the stress of coping with the bully. Most children subjected to cyberbullying complain of stomach aches, headaches, and other stress-related illnesses.

If you observe anyone or a few of these behavior changes in your children, you should immediately check their social media profiles and digital devices for signs of cyberbullying. If the child refuses to cooperate, you can take help from professionals like counselors and child psychiatrists. 

Unfortunately, most of the children who are cyberbullied do not prefer to share their ordeal with their parents. There are many reasons for such behavior. Sometimes the kid does not understand that he/she is being bullied. Even when they realize, they are afraid to share it with their parents because they fear the parents will cutaway access to digital gadgets. Other times the bully may threaten the child with dire consequences if he/she shares the incident with anyone. 

In such a scenario finding out that the child is being bullied is the biggest challenge working parents face. Though the problem also exists for families with one stay-at-home parent, it is more prevalent when both the parents are working. 

Your child may not explicitly tell you when he/she is bullied. But certain signs are telltale signs to identify cyberbullying. 

Signs of Being a Victim of Cyberbullying

  1. The child may suddenly stop using digital gadgets without any obvious reason
  2. He/she prefers not to use their gadgets when you are around
  3. The child switches off the gadget or changes screens when you try to peep 
  4. The kid seems anxious or nervous whenever there is a message, mail or text
  5. The child may not be willing to share their passwords and social media ids with you
  6. He/she keeps changing the passwords often
  7. He/she may vaguely suggest cyberbullying by making general statements about harassment or bullying
  8. The child makes weird excuses to avoid going to school
  9. The kid may be uncomfortable to attend social gatherings especially where his friends are present
  10. The child may become withdrawn and isolated

If your preteen or teenager exhibits a few of these signs, it is time to consult a professional counselor. It also helps to have open communication with the child to make him/her comfortable sharing any problems. As parents, you should not be judgmental but provide comfort and assurance to the child that the issue will be handled in a mature way. You should provide the child confidence that the bully will not be able to inflict any damage and he/she will be dealt with in a proper manner with the help of competent authorities.

It helps to have close monitoring of the child’s online activity to prevent instances of cyberbullying or deal with it at an early stage. However, most children do not like their parents meddling with their online profiles or social media accounts, which is one of the main problems faced by parents of school students. 

To avoid the constant bickering at home about the use of digital devices and social media platforms, it is advisable to have a discussion with the child. Explain to him/her about the dangers of excessive use of digital media. Equip them with proper advice about protecting them from online exploitation. You should instruct them not to entertain any friend requests from unknown people or share photos or videos that may give out their identity and other personal details to people at large.

Prevention is better than cure. It always helps to protect the child rather than face the ill-effects of cyberbullying.  

Tips To  Prevent Cyberbullying

  • Do not allow your children to use computers and mobiles in their bedrooms. Place the computer in a common area where you can keep a watch on their online activity. 
  • Educate yourself about the working of various social media apps such as Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook, Tiktok, etc. Request the children to show their profiles once in a while.
  • Have discussions about various incidents of online bullying. Assure your children that you are always there for them.
  • Work on ways to build a good rapport and trust with the child. Once your child feels that he/she can trust you, they will not hesitate to share any problems or issues troubling them.
  • Set limits for the use of digital gadgets. Involve the child while framing rules and limits. Ask for their opinions and explain your reasons. If they feel a part of the process, they are more likely to follow the rules.
  • Do not threaten to take away the smartphone or laptop of the child, when he/she complains of being bullied. 

Bullying has to be dealt with iron fists. Bullying has a lot of severe effects on children and may sometimes push them to the extreme. They may develop suicidal tendencies or harm themselves. Some children may resort to aggressive or defiant behavior causing problems between the parent and the child.  

Cyberbullying is difficult to identify due to its unlimited scope. Apart from reporting the issue to authorities, you should also offer support to the child, when your child is subjected to cyberbullying.

To handle the increasing cases of cyberbullying, the Government of India and the Ministry of Women and Child Development have launched a helpline to report cases of cyberbullying and online stalking or cyber harassment.  

You can report at complaint-mwcd@gov.in if your child is being cyberbullied. 

Though there are no specific anti-cyberbullying laws in India, the victims may be punished under the following cyber laws.

  • Sec 66 A – sending offensive messages through communication services, social media, etc.
  • Sec 66 C – Identity theft
  • Sec 66 D – cheating by impersonation by using digital media
  • Sec 66 E – the violation of privacy
  • Sec 67 B – publishing or transmitting content that depicts children in sexually explicit acts using electronic media
  • Sec 72 – breach of privacy and confidentiality
  • Sec 503 Indian Penal Code – using email to send threatening messages 
  • Sec 509 Indian Penal code – insulting the modesty of a woman using words, gestures or obscene acts
  • Sec 499 Indian Penal code – sending defamatory messages via email
  • Sec 500 Indian Penal code – email abuse

You can report cyberbullying to the district helpline or contact the cybercrime cell in your city to report instances of cyberbullying of your children or relatives. 

You have to maintain a record of the chats, messages, pictures and other content used by the bully. Use these records as evidence when you file a complaint against the bully.

Social media sites have taken the issue of cyberbullying seriously. They have come up with strict guidelines to prevent bullying on their platforms. Here are some ways to report bullying online.

Social media Platforms

If your child is bullied on social media or on websites, you can go to the company’s site and report the instance. Most of these apps and websites have a report section to provide measures to protect a person from bullying and abuse. You can block the bully and change the security settings of the profile.

Text messages or Phone

Contact your service provider to report the issue if the child is harassed or bullied over the phone, Whatsapp or text message. The mobile service provider will block the number of the bully or offer other anti-bullying support. 

Steps To Support Your Child In the Aftermath of Cyberbullying

Along with reporting the incident to the competent authorities, you should also provide support to the child to regain his/her self-confidence after being a victim of this horrific menace. 

Sign-off the Computer

Ask the child to sign-off the computer, ignore the attacks and walk away. 


Do Not Retaliate

Bullies always want to get a retaliation or angry reaction from their victims. Ignoring them and not showing any signs of hurt or anger is the best way to handle cyberbullies. 

Block the Bully


Most of the social media apps and texting apps give you the facility to block some contacts. If a person is harassing you online, remove his id from your friends’ list or block his number from your phone. 

Talk to an Adult

Encourage the child to talk to an adult. It can be one or both parents, teachers, school counselor or wellness coaches. Talking to a trusted adult will help the child to vent out his anger and frustration. The adult can offer support and guidance to the child on how to handle the bully and overcome the effects of cyberbullying. 

Explain its not Their Fault

When a child confides to you about being bullied online, assure them that it is not their fault. Explain in clear words that bullying is a sign of weakness on the part of the bully, and they are not at fault for being vulnerable and soft targets. 

Apart from protecting the child from cyberbullying, you should also take steps to ensure that your child does not turn to be a cyberbully. Children are the main offenders in the majority of the cases of cyberbullying. They resort to using online channels and digital media to shame their counterparts. 

Signs That Indicate Your Child is Resorting to Cyberbullying

  1. The kid starts using digital devices for more time than his/her regular viewing hours.
  2. The child uses his smartphone or a laptop for a major part of his/her free time.
  3. The child may change screens or shut down the device when you move around or peep into the device.
  4. He/she may become anxious when you take his/her device or talk about cutting off access.
  5. The child may become more secretive.
  6. He/she may prefer to spend time with a group of friends and ignore others.
  7. The child may be uncomfortable when you discuss issues about cyberbullying.

Tips to Prevent Your Child from being a Bully

It is shocking for many parents to discover that their child is a cyberbully. But as parents, it is our duty to educate the child about the ill-effects and negative consequences of bullying others. Here are some tips to prevent your child from being a cyberbully.

Ongoing Dialogue


Sometimes the child does not recognize that he is part of a group that is resorting to cyberbullying. They innocently forward messages and jokes about other children. Maintaining an ongoing dialogue helps to educate the child about bullying. 

Educate Them

Educate children about different types of bullying in an appropriate manner. Teach them to differentiate between harmless joking and harassing behavior. 

Tell Them the Importance of Standing Up

Let the children learn about standing up for themselves and for others against cyberbullying. This will discourage them from being part of groups that harass other children online. Teach them not to be bystanders.

Make Them Aware of the Punishment

You can discourage children from resorting to bullying behavior by making them aware of the punishment and negative consequences of bullying.

Related Read: How to Get Rid of Mobile Addiction for Your Child?

Identify Change in Behavior and Get Help

Closely watch the behavior of your child and notice any changes. Sometimes the child may resort to bullying to vent out his anger or frustration. If you feel that your child is a cyberbully, get professional help. 

Cyberbullying is a horrific crime that wreaks havoc in the lives of children. It has a number of negative consequences and alters the behavior of children. When parents are unaware of the underlying reason for the change in behavior and it leads to problems between the parent and child. It is the responsibility of parents to develop trust and confidence in the child so that he/she can confide in them about any issues. 

Protecting children from the harmful effects of cyberbullying is the key problem faced by parents of school students. Observing children, discussing problems and providing support are some ways through which you can empower children to handle cyberbullying. When you discover that your child is a victim of cyberbullying, help is at hand. You can report the instance to the social media sites, cybercrime cell or cybercrime helpline. 

While protecting children from cyberbullying is important, it is also equally important to prevent them from cyberbullies. You should keep a close watch on their online behavior. if you observe the child is part of a bully group, alert him/her about the negative consequences of bullying to prevent your child from being a bully.

 

 

 

 

 

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4 Types of Parenting And Their Pros and Cons

By Praveena

Parenting is a tight rope walk. It involves a lot of struggles and sacrifices with the need to handle various types of parenting methodologies.

Parents of today’s generation are overwhelmed with the whole process of parenting. As a result, they are struggling to be perfect and cool parents, while there is nothing as such. 

Every parent has a different approach to address the demands of parenting today, and each of us is right in our own way. But in the end what matters is whether we are able to raise happy and healthy children, who are confident and can overcome the obstacles of life.

Your style of parenting has an important role to play in the development of the child. It affects many areas of their life such as school performance, social skills, confidence, and behavior. Read on to know about different styles of parenting and identify your style.

Parenting can be classified into four broad styles. These styles are categorized depending on 2 factors, namely responsiveness, and authoritativeness. A combination of these 2 factors determines your style of parenting. Understanding different styles of parenting will help you to assess the pros and cons of each style. You can choose a style or a combination of styles that works to overcome the challenges of parents in the present scenario. 

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Types of Parenting

Authoritarian

 

As the name suggests authoritarian parents are very strict. They have clearly stated rules, and expect 100% obedience from the child. Authoritarian parents do not believe in the process of discussion. They lay down the rules and the child has to follow them. Children of Authoritarian parents often tend to be timid and lacking in self-confidence and spontaneity. Sometimes children resort to defiant behavior, lying, etc. to protect themselves from the wrath of the parents. 


Such type of parenting does not help to meet the demands of parenting today. It does not help to raise children who are responsible and trustworthy. Children rebel against authoritarian parents as they feel invaluable and unloved. They lack social skills and may grow up to be depressed and anxious adults

Authoritative

Authoritative parents exert authority and control, but they are also open to discussion whenever required. They try to balance their own need for control with the child’s need for independence. This type of parent is demanding and responsive at the same time. They want to groom children to be responsible and self-reliant young adults. 


Permissive

Permissive parents are highly responsive and warm.They have few expectations from the children. They want the child to be self- reliant and have self-regulation. These parents are generally more lenient, avoid confrontation, and believe in the freedom of expression.

We can observe that most of these parents try to be friends with their children. They give in to the demands of the kids easily and hardly ever control them. Some of these parents are confused about dealing with the demands of pre-adolescent and teenage children. They prefer to provide the kids with everything they ask for to avoid chaos and fighting at home. 

Children of permissive parents grow up feeling entitled and lack adjustment. They rebel against the parents, when they try to exert some control at later stage. However, children of permissive parents have high self-esteem, good social skills and self-regulation.

While this style of parenting is not completely unacceptable, finding the right balance is the key. You have to balance between acting as a parent and as a friend. Remember that children have friends but they need a gentle and loving parent, to guide them in the right direction. 

Uninvolved

Uninvolved parents are neither responsive nor demanding. They give absolute freedom to the child and are not at all involved in the child’s life. These parents are indifferent to the child’s need of love and care. Extreme form of this style may border towards neglect.

The children of uninvolved parents most often resolve to risky behaviors to attract the attention of their parents. With no parental supervision, these children may lean towards violence, substance abuse, addiction etc.  

After analyzing different styles of parenting, researchers opine that children of authoritative parents turn out to be responsible adults. children of authoritative parents are confident, self-regulated, adjust well, and believe in freedom of expression. The authoritative parenting style is best suited to face the demands of parenting today, where children are exposed to more and more evils such as social media, abuse, bullying, etc.

No matter what style of parenting you believe in, you should always show love, empathy, care and respect towards your child. You should work towards creating a connection with the child and build rapport with them. This will enable the child to confide in you about their fears and other issues, which are the main reason for indifferent behavior. Look for ways to provide them with experiential learning about their body, their surroundings, and the world at large. This will broaden their horizon and enable them to learn new skills. Spend time with children and practice what you preach. 

 

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10 Effective Tips for Good Parenting

By Praveena

Parenting is the most often heard word. But how many of us know exactly what is parenting, the importance of parenting and effective parenting techniques? 

Before we proceed further, let us first discuss parenting and what is good parenting. 

Parenting also known as child rearing is the process of raising children from infancy to adulthood. It involves providing a proper environment that fosters the physical, intellectual, social, and emotional development of the child. 
Good parenting means being physically and emotionally available to the child. It involves using the right parenting skills to develop positive qualities such as empathy, kindness, self-reliance, confidence, trust, honesty, etc. Positive or good parenting evokes curiosity in children and motivates them to excel in anything they choose to. It helps to save children from risky adolescent behavior, mental health conditions, and antisocial behavior

Ten Effective Tips to Improve Your Parenting Skills:

Children Learn by Observing

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What you do matters a lot more than what you say. Children are keen observers and they learn from observing your actions. They mimic your behavior whether it is pertaining to body-image issues or the way you treat others. Leading by example is one of the most effective and important parenting skills that produces wonderful results. For example, if you instruct the child not to use social media but you yourself spend a lot of time on social media, the child will rebel against you. 

Love Doesn’t Spoil a Child

There is nothing as too much love. Every child deserves unconditional love from his/her parents. Most of us think that too much love spoils a child but it is the lack of love that spoils children. Children are spoilt when we replace love with material things, leniency or lowered expectations. 

Be Present… Be Involved

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As a parent, you have to be present for the child and be involved with his/her life. This requires a lot of effort and sacrifice. You have to sacrifice your wishes sometimes and rearrange your priorities to be there for your child. You have to be mentally and physically available to the child when he/she needs you.

However, it is important to remember that being involved does not mean doing homework and projects of the child or insisting to be with them round the clock. This will hamper the individuality and sense of responsibility of the child. 

Learn and Adapt

You have to keep up with the growing age and demands of the child. The demands of a 3-year-old are different from those of a 13-year-old. In the same way, the way you handle a toddler is different from handling teen tantrums. You have to constantly keep learning and updating your parenting skills. Moreover, you should adapt your techniques to suit the child.  

You can seek help from professionals such as parenting experts, counselors, therapists etc. to learn new parenting techniques and get support when required. Sometimes parenting seems to be a tough task but taking help from professionals, friends, and family makes it easier to cope with the demands of parenting. 

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Set Rules

Set rules and discipline them when they are young if you want your child to be self-regulated at teenage. You should explain to the child about acceptable and unacceptable behavior in an age-appropriate manner. The rules should be applicable to all the children in the family. However, this does not mean that you have to micromanage the child all the time. The importance of parenting lies in creating a fine balance between disciplining the child and giving them independence. 

Make Your child Independent

Encourage the child to be independent. Teach them to take responsibility for their actions. This will give them a sense of self-reliance and self-direction. It is human nature to seek control of one’s life and to dislike being controlled by others. Do not mistake your child’s need for independence to be defiant behavior or rebellion. 

You can take steps to make your child independent by sending them to excursions or learning programs during vacations, asking them to do small chores by themselves, giving them pocket money and so on. 

Be Consistent

Whatever may be your style of parenting, you have to be consistent in your approach. There is no use of having rules that keep changing or those that are not implemented strictly. Consistency is the key to discipline children effectively. Make the child aware that he/she has to face the consequences of flouting the rules. 


Avoid Aggressive Behavior

Never resort to disciplinary methods that involve harsh punishments. Never hit or spank the child. There are other non-violent ways to discipline a child. Children tend to bully others or adopt violent behavior when they are hit or slapped at home. They feel that showing aggression in a non-violent manner is acceptable. 

It is normal to get angry when the child does not listen to you or repeatedly disobeys you. But try not to lose your temper. Whenever you lose your cool, take some time out to regain your composure and then speak to the child in a calm and gentle manner. 


Have Open Communication Channels

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It is important to have open communication with the children to build a good rapport with them. Children should be comfortable sharing their fears, worries, and other issues troubling them with you. This will help to make sure that they get the right advice and guidance. 

Mutual Respect is Important

Give respect to get respect. This rule applies to parents too. Respect your child and be polite to him if you expect respect from them. As we have already discussed, children mimic your actions and they learn to treat others by observing the way you treat them. Respecting your child’s opinions, and treating them with empathy and kindness will develop positive rapport and help to avoid many parenting challenges.

There is no good or bad when it comes to parenting. Everything depends on what works for you and your child. Parenting is a process that involves lots of learning and adapting as you go along. Understand the importance of parenting in the child’s life and try your best to provide the right environment for the child to grow mentally, physically, and emotionally. 

 

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6 Proven Tips to Handle The Problems Faced by Parents of Adolescent Children

By Praveena

Are you worried about the sudden behavioral changes in your teenager?

Are you struggling to find credible information about handling teen issues?

Sounds familiar. Right?

Do not worry, You are not alone.

Adolescence is a critical age for children. This is the age where they go through a lot of physical and emotional upheavals and face many challenges. Teenage or adolescence is the stage where most children are exposed to many internal and external changes. Hormonal changes, puberty, societal and school pressure are some of them. And because of these changes, teenagers, as well as their parents, go through a lot of trouble.

As a parent of a teenager, you too face a lot of problems in handling their temper tantrums. You are always on the toes to deal with their mood swings, demands, and emotional outbursts. In such a scenario, the bonding and communication between you and the child play a crucial role. They help to overcome almost all of the problems faced by parents of adolescent children.

Understanding the problems faced by adolescents will help you to handle them in a better manner.

Common Teen Problems

  1. Body image issues and eating disorders
  2. Lack of self-esteem
  3. Cyber addiction
  4. Bullying
  5. Peer pressure
  6. Unhealthy competition
  7. Addictions
  8. Depression and other mental health issues
  9. Underage sex
  10. Teen pregnancy

Most of these issues are connected. For example, a child suffering from body image issues may suffer from eating disorders and depression. Which in turn, leads to addiction, substance abuse, and aggression.

Being a parent, you can play a crucial role in the development of the child. You must gently guide him/her to cope with the sudden changes and societal pressure in a positive manner.

However, the hormonal and emotional changes in the child may create some problems for you too. Here are some tips to deal with the common problems faced by parents of adolescent children.

Related Read: 3 Challenges Faced by Parents While Raising a Child and Tips to Overcome Them

Identify Any Behavioral Changes

 

Identifying teen issues at an early stage will help you to guide the children towards healthy ways to handle their problems. Changes in sleeping patterns, unusual eating habits, spending more time with mobiles, laptops, and other gadgets, reduced social activity, irritability, etc. are all symptoms of teen issues. All these behavioral changes are signs of an underlying issue like stress, addiction, or mental health disorders. You have to observe the child very closely to notice any changes in behavior.

Transfer Age Appropriate Knowledge 

Hormonal changes and puberty are two main issues that lead to a lot of aggression and unwanted issues in teenagers. Preteens and teenagers are curious to explore their bodies and learn about different concepts. This is the main reason they resort to deviant behavior, underage sex, alcohol consumption, and smoking. If you want to dissuade the child from such risky behaviors, try to have open communication with them. Transferring knowledge in an age-appropriate manner will help them to get the right information from the right source.

Talk to the child about sex, addictions and other topics to remove the taboo around them. Have an open discussion with the child and explain everything in a scientific and easy to understand manner. Make them aware of the risks involved and prepare a clear set of rules stating accepted and unaccepted behaviors.

Respect Their Opinions

Most of the teenagers crave for validation. To address this issue, you have to respect their ideas and opinions and make them a part of the decision-making process. Respecting their views helps to enhance the self-esteem of the child and is the key to avoid confrontation. Moreover, it also aids to overcome the problems faced by parents of adolescent children, like defiant behavior, lack of communication, and isolation.

Trust Your child

Like any other relationship, trust is the foundation stone for building a strong parent-child relationship. You should never resort to spying, cross-checking, and doubting as these negative behaviors make the child lie, behave in a defiant manner, and steal. Trust and acceptance help to develop positive traits in children.

Create a Rapport

Creating a strong bond is the solution to most of the problems faced by parents of adolescent children. Work towards creating a good rapport with your child. Have open lines of communication, and find the right balance between being a parent and a friend. This will make the child comfortable to discuss any issues that are bothering him/her.

For example, research shows that most teenagers face abuse and bullying, but the majority of them suffer in isolation due to the fear of being ridiculed. This is where good communication with parents comes to play. Having a good rapport with parents makes the child comfortable to come out in the open and discuss their problems. 

Seek Professional Help

Sometimes it is not possible to handle the stress of raising teens. in such a scenario, you can opt for professional help. Consult counselors, doctors, therapists, and psychiatrists for proper guidance and support. And along with these professionals, you can also turn towards experienced and older members of the family for additional help and support.

Enroll in Learning Programs

Experiential learning programs educate the child about society and the world at large. Learning about and experiencing different cultures allows the child to blossom into a well-rounded individual. 

Understanding the problems and finding out suitable ways to handle them will empower us to handle the routine problems faced by parents of adolescent children. Whatever technique of parenting we follow, it is always helpful to have love, empathy, respect, trust, and complete acceptance towards the child. 

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